12 Days of Christmas- 10 Conversation Starters

12 Days of Christmas 10 Conversation Starters

Welcome back to the 12 Days of Christmas. Only a few more days to go and the wonderful time I’ve had encouraging you will come to a close.

Today, I want to give you 10 questions that you can ask your spouse. These questions are to help you engage in great conversations and become closer to one another.

1. How Can I Be a Better Lover For You?

It is so important to ask your spouse on occasion if you are meeting their sexual needs. Everyone deserves to have a great sex life. Ask your significant other what you can do to meet their physical needs better.

2. What’s the Best Thing That Happened to You Today?

Most of the time, your spouse walks in the door and you ask them how their day was. Maybe they give you the head nod and a simple, “It was good”. Get them talking with this question.

3. Where do You Want to Go on Our Next Vacation?

It is getting to that time of year when you will start looking ahead to summer vacation time. If you haven’t already decided where you plan to go, then take time to talk about it.

4. If You Could Do One Thing With Me Right Now, What Would it Be?

Here is a great way to start a potentially romantic conversation. Even if it doesn’t go the obvious direction, it can be a lot of fun to have this talk.

5. What Do You Hope to Accomplish This Year?

Now that it is the New Year, most of us have thought about the coming months at least a little. Ask your spouse what they hope to accomplish this year. After you know their goals, ask if there are ways you can help them to keep their goals.

6. What Have You Been Reading In The Bible?

It is a good idea to talk with your spouse about the things you have been learning in the Bible. You can really connect and bond over the discussions that take place.

7. What is Your Favorite Thing to Do When We Are on A Date?

Find out what your spouse’s favorite thing is about dating you. It might help you to plan better dates in the future.

8. If You Could Open a Store, What Would You Sell?

Most of us daydream on occasion about doing something different with our lives from what we are doing currently. It can be a lot of fun to talk about what if scenarios.

9. What Are Two Reasons That You Married Me?


It would be hard for me to narrow down my reasons for marrying my husband to two, but that is a good starting place for some people. Don’t be afraid to list more!

10. If We Could Fund a Non-Profit Organization, What Would it Be?

Giving back to the world around you is a very bonding thing to do as a couple and family. Even though you can’t fund a non-profit organization solely, you can have the conversation and then look for an organization you can give to regularly.

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