20 Steamy Questions to Ask Your Spouse

A great way to start a romantic night with your spouse is to ask each other a few steamy questions. It can be so exciting to talk sex before you spend time together intimately. These conversations can get you and your spouse in the mood for a great night.



Here is a printable version of 30 sexy questions you can ask your spouse.

30 Questions to Ask Your Spouse Printable

Steamy Questions to Ask

  1. What is your favorite part of being intimate with me?
  2. Is there something in the bedroom that you think we should do more?
  3. Do you feel satisfied in our love life?
  4. What can I do to serve you better in our love life?
  5. Is there a specific outfit you wish I would wear before we get intimate?
  6. What do you find me most attractive in?
  7. If we could do something intimately with one another right now, what would it be?
  8. What does intimacy look like to you?
  9. What is something that I do that makes you feel most loved?
  10. What do I do that makes you feel most attracted to me?

  1. What do you wish we would do more of before we are physically intimate?
  2. How often do you think we should be physically intimate in a week?
  3. Is there something I do that really turns you on?
  4. Describe to me what you see when you look at me without my clothes on.
  5. Do you like making out?
  6. Whatโ€™s your favorite way to get in the mood?
  7. Do you like listening to music while we are being physically intimate?
  8. Lights on or off while we are being physically intimate?
  9. Is there something we could do differently at night so we could be intimate more often?
  10. Do you like me to talk or make noises while we are being physically intimate?


Setting The Stage For a Romantic Night

To set yourself up for a romantic night, try out some of these ideas:

  • Light candles or plug in Christmas lights
  • Both of you wear something sexy
  • Put on soft instrumental music
  • Pour your favorite drinks
  • Have a few snacks if you plan to talk for a while
  • Start out on the couch and then move to the bed

These are just a few at home date night suggestions that can help you set the mood.

Want More Steamy Questions?

I posted 10 more steamy questions over on my sister website, I Am The Sex Talk Lady. Feel free to check those out if you are looking for more.

10 Sexy Questions to Ask Your Spouse



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