I really enjoy talking about intimacy with other couples. While it takes consistent work to find the things you both enjoy, the effort is worth everything that happens as a result of it. So, the question is, how can you enjoy intimacy? Here are my top 5 tips for you.
1. Plan A Talking Time Everyday
I can’t stress the importance of this enough. You won’t be able to truly enjoy intimacy with your spouse if you don’t take time to know one another. You will develop a deeper connection with one another if you talk each day.
The intimate experiences you have in the bedroom happen because you spend time during the day. Spending a little time investing in one another’s mental and emotional needs will grow a deeper connection. As a result, your physical intimacy will also grow.
2. Love Your Body
When we think of body image, we immediately think of being skinny, having defined abs, or anything else we view as sexy. Start by finding a new definition of beauty and match it with your spouse instead.
When you have a healthy view of yourself and your spouse, that is sexy. While there is nothing wrong with making healthy changes to your body, don’t make that the focus. Otherwise, neither of you will want to sexually express yourself. This leads to other problems down the road.
3. Have Fantasies About Your Spouse
There is nothing wrong with taking time to fantasize about your spouse. Think about some things that you do together in the bedroom or you want to do with your spouse. This will increase excitement for the next time you’re together.
4. Try Some Foreplay
Foreplay can add some exciting things for both of you. Just taking the time to experiment will help you know what the other likes or doesn’t like. If you feel intimidated, remember you and your spouse trust one another.
Making the move to try new things is an act of trust. It will also make your spouse see that you’re willing to try new things you both may find enjoyable.
5. Create Sparks By Flirting
Flirting lets your spouse know you still love and want them. It really does keep that spark in your romance. Marriage does not mean the romance has to end. It should keep growing stronger.
Whispering, laughing, quiet giggling, and kissing are things that tell your spouse you like them. Remember how you felt about each other when you were dating? That doesn’t have to stop. It’s a great way to keep the fun going.
These are some ways you can deepen the intimacy with your spouse and find more ways to connect with one another.