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How it Feels to Undress in Front of Your Spouse

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Recently, I received a questions about how it feels to undress in a sultry way in front of your spouse. That is an interesting questions to receive, but I wanted to take a stab at it….

So, here’s how it feels-

Like You’re a Giant Idiot

I’m serious! If you have never undressed in a sexy way in front of your spouse before, you are going to be nervous. Even if you go into it prepared, it can be a bit unnerving.

I don’t want to discourage you from doing this, but I’m always honest with you. You are not weird if the thought of doing a strip tease makes you feel like hiding under the covers.

How to Undress in Front of Your Spouse

If you want to try and add this form of foreplay into your bedroom life, then check out this post I wrote that will give you tips on what to do. It can put your mind at ease if you have some idea of what you are going to do ahead of time. At least set the stage so that you can be mentally prepared.

Truthfully, after you’ve done this a few times, you will actually start to feel sexy. It can be a great way to get in the mood.


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  1. I suggest this as foreplay too and it will add even more in anticipation. I think a lot of women overlook this and I realize body image may have a lot to do with it. It may be fun to have his sensuously undress you, but before date night or even putting on lingerie ready for sex, ask him to help you dress on occasion. We are task oriented and we love would love to help. No sex. Light touching maybe, but no sex. You can lean on his shoulder while you step into your panties and he pulls them up. He can place your bra on your shoulders and hook it. You can adjust the girls on your own. He can help put on your stockings or thigh highs and then whatever outer garments you choose to wear. And he simply must put your shoes on for you. If you do none of the rest of this, do that much. Let him rest your ankle in his hand and slide that shoe on your foot. If dressing casual and this is a tennis shoe, let him tie it. Most men have a thing about feet and you may as well take advantage of it. If he does nothing else, that will get his motor humming. And don’t forget to have him remove them when you get home. Don’t just kick them off by the door or bed. Sit down and offer him your leg and ask “Can you help me take these off, please.” You may as well give him a verbal cue with which to offer to help remove the rest.

    Think of sex as a game in which you both always try to think a few moves ahead to where you want to be next and how to get your partner there with you.

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