I find it very interesting that the #2 post on my other website, I Am The Sex Talk Lady, is 3 Tips on How to Please Your Wife Sexually. Consequently, I get a lot of searches like-
These searches are taken straight from my analytics. Know what it tells me? There are a lot of Godly men out there that really want to take care of their wives sexually. To me, it dispels the myth that all men want from women is to take care of their sexual needs. It’s obvious that there are a lot of men who truly want to understand their wife and how to make them feel amazing.
Unfortunately, two positions down, the post What to do When Sex Feels Like a Chore. And the searches the bring men to the site for that are:
- wife is not in the mood
- wife feels like sex is a chore
- chore sex
- how to get wife in the mood
I know that there are women in this same position with their husbands. They have a low drive husband who’s rarely in the mood and they want to know how to please them. I haven’t personally spoken to those subjects, so no one is coming to my site about it. But J over at Hot Holy Humorous has spoken on the topic many times. Like in her post, High Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots.
It’s just a reminder to me that sex is very complicated and that when I feel like I’ve written about the subject enough, there’s so much left to say. Sometimes I wonder if I’m beating a dead horse with all of the advice and information I provide about sex. But, then, I see the heart of my readership and realize they are still desperately searching for answers. So I’ll write on.