I think that many women shy away from giving their husband’s oral sex, because they aren’t sure what to do. I can also understand those that don’t want to run a random Google search on giving good head. There’s no telling what types of content you will encounter.
That is why I want to share with you a great oral sex technique for a wife to do on her husband. It is called the Frenulum technique for the penis. Scroll down and you’ll see the step by step instructions I give for a husband and wife to try and to stimulate a husband’s frenulum.
Also, if you aren’t ready to give your husband oral sex because you aren’t mentally ready, you can use your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate this area.
There are some great benefits to this technique for both the wife and the husband.
For the wife-
Sometimes, giving your spouse oral sex can be very taxing on your jaws or mouth. The frenulum technique uses your tongue and lips, rather than your entire mouth. You will do a lighter stimulation than what you would normally do with other oral sex positions.
For the husband-
This technique requires the husband to control himself for the orgasm. It leads to a greater sensation and release. Also, it can help the husband to work on lasting longer for his wife.
It is Similar To Clitoral Stimulation
The other great thing about the frenulum technique, is that the wife will lick her husband similarly to how he would lick her clitoris for oral sex. If you are a wife that enjoys oral sex and knows what feels good, it can help you know how to move your tongue on your husband.
The wife can think about what motions feel good to her during oral sex and do those same things for her husband.
How to Stimulate The Frenulum on a Man’s Penis
Here are a few tips to stimulate the penile frenulum:
Wife should start with light touches – the wife can use her tongue, a vibrator, or the tips of her finger to stimulate the area. If you are not using your tongue, it recommended that you use a lubricant, or this area will get sensitive quickly. Think of the way your clitoris would feel without any lubricant.
Husband should stay relaxed – while this will be difficult, the husband should not squeeze his pelvic muscles. What you’re trying to accomplish is a different orgasm experience than normal. By squeezing your pelvic muscles, you will not get the full experience of orgasming through frenulum stimulation.
Wife should slowly build intensity – even if your husband is begging you to go harder, slowly build up the intensity. Watch the signs of his body as he gets more aroused.
Husband will need to communicate – if you need more lube or want a different type of stroke, let your wife know. She’s going to do what she can to slowly ramp you up, but if it is starting to irritate, she’ll need to change her technique.
Wife should alternate her tongue strokes – if the wife is giving her husband frenulum oral sex, then she should go from a flat tongue to a sharp tongue and alternate strokes to see what he responds to best.
Continue until husband orgasms.
Frenulum Stimulation Video Chat
I explain more about the frenulum in the video below.
Great Way to Start Giving Oral To Your Husband
If you have been holding back on giving your husband oral sex, this is a good place to start. The techniques are lighter and easy to manage.
Just a note to the husband, it takes time for this type of stimulation to feel like anything. It might give him a better understanding of how long it can take his wife’s clitoris to respond to stimulation.
Keelie is a mother of three amazing boys and married to her high school sweetheart, Austin. She spends her days running R5 Website Management, taking care of the home, and investing in her children. In her spare time, she loves to encourage married couples to grow deeper in their relationship and find joy in their marriage.