How to Not Feel Grossed Out Giving A Blow Job

Keelie Reason

June 17, 2017

2 comments

I received questions about giving oral sex and I wanted to share. One reader wanted to know how to stop feeling grossed out by giving their husband oral sex. I realize this is a hard topic, but we need to work through it.

Husbands, I want to give you a personal note that your wife’s aversion to oral sex has nothing to do with or your manhood. It isn’t because you are gross. It’s not because you aren’t desirable or attractive. If you wife doesn’t want to give you oral sex, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you or enjoy being intimate with you.

Wives, if your spouse really enjoys foreplay moves or sex positions, it would be honoring for you to figure out how to make it happen. So, if you are struggling with this, but want to give oral sex a try, then try these ideas.

How to stop feeling grossed out

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Keelie Reason

I'm the voice of Love, Hope, Adventure, where I talk about the marriage relationship, intimacy in marriage, and how couples can go deeper with each other. I've been helping couples for well over a decade to lean into their sexuality and explore intimacy with their spouse. My goal is to answer questions that couples have about sex that they are too afraid to ask or Google. I provide God-honoring answers and resources to help them to go on a sexual journey together.