Last week I wrote how to stop feeling grossed out on receiving pleasure with your spouse’s mouth, I received more questions about giving. One reader wanted to know how to stop feeling grossed out by giving their husband oral sex. I realize this is a hard topic, but we need to work through it.
Husbands, I want to give you a personal note that your wife’s aversion to oral sex has nothing to do with or your manhood. It isn’t because you are gross. It’s not because you aren’t desirable or attractive. If you wife doesn’t want to give you oral sex, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you or enjoy being intimate with you.
Wives, if your spouse really enjoys foreplay moves or sex positions, it would be honoring for you to figure out how to make it happen. So, if you are struggling with this, but want to give oral sex a try, then try these ideas.