The Reality of Undressing In a Sultry Way

The Reality of Undressing in a Sultry Way

I have been looking through some of the questions that bring people to Love Hope Adventure. If you can believe it, I have seen several people asking how to undress in a sultry or sexy way for their spouse. Some even want step by step picture instructions, so they can be sure that they’ve got it right.

The Reality of Undressing in a Sultry Way

Here’s the reality- trying to undress yourself in a sexy way is 100% awkward. You are going to feel like a big dweeb. I am not sure if you ever get away from feeling like that- maybe with enough tries.

Anytime you go out on a limb for your lover, it can be really scary. You will think the entire time that you are not doing something right. However, I think most of us appreciate when someone has clearly put in a lot of effort to doing something sweet for us.

Even if you feel silly, your spouse may absolutely love the fact that you tried, and will most likely be pleased with what you did for them.

How Do You Make it Less Awkward and Uncomfortable?

I HAVE NO IDEA! Seriously people- I have no idea how to instruct anyone on how to undress themselves in general, much less in a sexy way. I don’t watch sex scenes or strip teases (and I suggest you don’t, either), but I’m guessing that they have to shoot those scenes over and over to get it to go right. 

Really, all you are trying to do is please your spouse. You don’t have to please a producer, which is exactly what a professional actor or actress has to do when they are shooting scenes like this. You have an audience of one! Just one! How incredible is that?

Ask your spouse what they like and try to do it. Experimenting is all you can do when it comes to trying to undress yourself in a seductive manner.

When it Comes to Undressing Each Other- I’m SMH

Undress each other

On to the next question that I’ve seen come across, “How to undress your wife or husband”. I just laugh out loud at this one, because it is super hard to undress another person- especially while you are kissing. Again, movies are not real and you do not have the stage directions for how each of you are supposed to move around.

It can be fun to try and undress each other- I mean- it can be funny…downright hilarious actually. You will likely have a great laugh trying to get each other’s clothes off. That is absolutely ok to have silly sex and laugh a lot.

Oh- I know laughing isn’t what you consider to be sexy, but it’s just going to happen sometimes.

It’s Ok To Try Something That Doesn’t Work Out in The Bedroom

I think you should try a lot of different things in the bedroom to see what works and what doesn’t. If it doesn’t work the first time, try again, maybe it will work the next time.

Go ahead and try to get undressed in a sexy way, even if you laugh and blush through the whole thing. Try to take each other’s clothes off even if you have to give up and unbutton your own pants or snap off your own bra.

Don’t let awkward feelings keep you from exploring your sexuality with your lover. They are the ones you should be able to do crazy things around and know they are still going to love you.

I loved what Marriage 4:29 said in her post about Dancing For Her Husband. She really went out on a limb for him and it turned out well for her. What a positive thing!

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