Resources For High Drive Wives

One of the most common emails I get is from high drive wives that don’t have anyone else to talk to about the issues in their marriage. You are not alone! There are a lot of women that have husbands with lower drives. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about on either side. 

Time to Think of Sex Drives Differently

First off, I want to encourage you to look at sex drives differently than what you have been told. My friend Jay Dee talks at length about responsive desire versus a spontaneous desire. 

What you would consider a low drive spouse is usually a spouse that has a responsive desire. They don’t feel sexually turned on until something sexual is going on. A spouse with a spontaneous desire is usually considered a higher drive, because they are turned on when nothing sexual is happening. 

If you are a high drive wife (or husband), you feel sexually excited throughout the day and crave sex. But, a spouse with a responsive desire needs seduction. They aren’t going to feel the desire for sex spontaneously when nothing is happening. 

Resources For a Higher Drive Wife

Here’s a list of resources you can check out if you are a higher drive wife (or husband).

• Podcast Episode for Higher Drive Wives – Sex Chat Ladies
• High Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots – J. Parker
• Sex Drive Differences Aren’t the Problem – Jay Dee
• Understanding Your Sex Drive – Keelie
• What Wives Should Know About Their Sex Drive – J. Parker
• Letter to Low Drive Husbands – J. Parker
• How to Handle Your Opposite Drives – Keelie

Message Me To Talk

I just want to put this out there that if you are a high drive wife and need someone to bounce some ideas off of, send me an email to [email protected]. I have wives message me every month and tell me that they are struggling with this in their marriage. I’m always happy to chat.