Have you ever taken the time to put on lingerie, only to find it on the floor in about 2 seconds? I mean, what else are you supposed to do when you come out in something seductive? I’m pretty practical, so if I take the time to get dressed up, I want to do more than just take it off.
It’s taken some time for me to brainstorm, but I’ve come up with some romantic ideas for when you are in lingerie. These ideas will prolong your time with your spouse so you both can enjoy being sexy together.
Select music that you and your spouse will enjoy dancing to. You can go with soft and slow, or upbeat. Whatever you feel comfortable doing with one another.
If you do not care for dancing, doing it before you have sex may change your mind about it. Don’t be afraid to try different things out.
Have a Candlelit Dinner
After your kids go to bed, have a candlelit dinner with one another. If you are afraid they will come out of their rooms and see you, then take snacks to your bedroom and set up in there.
You can play music during your dinner time to help set the mood. Whatever you decide to talk about, make sure it is light and fun.
Play a Bedroom Game
The biggest posts on my site are for bedroom games. Austin and I have put together many free printables to make these games simple for you to download and print out.
When you take the guesswork out of foreplay, it makes it a lot easier to relax. You don’t always know what you are in the mood for, so these games can really help you out.
It can be a lot of fun to spread a blanket out on the floor and pile up a few pillows to sit on. Again, if you are worried that your children will come out into the house and see you, then take the picnic to your bedroom.
Put together a few snacks and enjoy time sitting with each other. If you have a fireplace, you might want to sit in front of it for ambiance.
Light some candles, play soft music, and incorporate the conversation starters into the scene.
Having an at home date night is very special if you take time to put it together. For more tips, check out the post I wrote for:
Keelie is a mother of three amazing boys and married to her high school sweetheart, Austin. She spends her days running R5 Website Management, taking care of the home, and investing in her children. In her spare time, she loves to encourage married couples to grow deeper in their relationship and find joy in their marriage.