80+ Romantic Would You Rather Questions For Couples

Asking your husband or wife would you rather questions is a fun way to find out things they like. Austin and I put together 80+ romantic would you rather questions that cover date night preferences, getting your hands on each other, sexy questions, and flirty ideas. For our sexy would you rather questions, you can check out the post here

These questions are great to ask your spouse on a date night or anytime you want something to talk about other than your responsibilities. We hope these help you feel connected and have fun with each other!

Date Night Questions

Feeling stuck in a rut on date nights? Here are a few would you rather questions that could spark new ideas of what you might do for your next date. 

  1. Would you rather watch a romantic comedy or an action movie?
  2. Would you rather go to dinner or for a walk? 
  3. Would you rather hang out at home or in the corner of a coffee shop? 
  4. Would you rather go for a long drive or a long walk?
  5. Would you rather have a picnic lunch or a candlelit dinner? 
  6. Would you rather get dressed up for a date night or dress casually? 
  7. Would you rather hang out with a bunch of friends at a party or sneak away to a corner with me?
  8. Would you rather lay on a soft blanket on the ground or in the back of a pickup truck?
  9. Would you rather do chores in the house or yard work together?
  10. Would you rather try a new cuisine or eat comfort foods?
  11. Would you rather win me a stuffed animal at a carnival or out of a claw machine?
  12. Would you rather have dinner for two at home in lingerie or in the nude?
  13. Would you rather sit under the stars or under the city lights?
  14. Would you rather walk around the mall or a park?
  15. Would you rather sip a hot tea or a milkshake?
  16. Would you rather have a candlelit dinner at home or at a fancy restaurant?
  17. Would you rather have popcorn or candy during our next movie night?
  18. Would you rather work out together or read a book together? 
  19. Would you rather go see a play or go to a concert?
  20. Would you rather get a couples massage or take turns massaging each other?
  21. Would you rather ride in a hot air balloon or go to a hot air balloon festival and see them fly?
  22. Would you rather go roller skating or ice skating?
  23. Would you rather teach me something you know or take a class on something neither of us knows how to do?
  24. Would you rather read a book together or write a story together?
  25. Would you rather ride go-karts or go to a NASCAR race? 
  26. Would you rather walk around a farmer’s market or a thrift store?
  27. Would you rather sing at a karaoke bar or around the campfire? 
  28. Would you rather cook a meal together or order takeout?
  29. Would you rather enjoy a quiet night at home or go out dancing? 
  30. Would you rather watch a movie or go to an arcade?

Flirty Would You Rather Questions

Want to be more flirty with each other? Here are some questions that will help you be on the lookout for fun and flirty things to do with your spouse. 

  1. Would you rather kiss my forehead or my cheeks? 
  2. Would you rather send me a flirty text or whisper something sexy in my ear?
  3. Would you rather dance to a slow love song or something upbeat?
  4. Would you rather kiss me goodbye or hello?
  5. Would you rather have a pillow fight or a nerf gun fight?
  6. Would you rather hug me from behind or from the front? 
  7. Would you rather feed me chocolates or pizza?
  8. Would you rather sing me a song or write me a poem?
  9. Would you rather tell me you love me in a public speech or make a video and post it online?
  10. Would you rather listen to jazz or R&B during sex?
  11. Would you rather dance with me or dance for me? 
  12. Would you rather feed me strawberries or roasted marshmallows?
  13. Would you rather I feed you with a fork or my fingers?

Couple’s Getaway Questions

Thinking about taking a couple’s getaway? Ask each other these questions for inspiration.

  1. Would you rather have a romantic vacation at the beach or in the mountains?
  2. Would you rather have a weekend getaway at a hotel or at a cabin?
  3. Would you rather sit on a beach or hike in the mountains together?
  4. Would you rather watch a sunset or a sunrise? 
  5. Would you rather ride in a horse-drawn carriage or ride horses?
  6. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or dinner on the couch?
  7. Would you rather go snow skiing or water skiing?

Questions About Physical Affection 

What’s your favorite way to get your hands on each other? Here are some prompts to get you talking.

  1. Would you rather spend time cuddling on the couch or spooning in bed?
  2. Would you rather sit by the fireplace and snuggle or hold me in a hot tub?
  3. Would you rather go to bed early to cuddle or stay up late talking?
  4. Would you rather light candles or cut on Christmas lights for a romantic glow?
  5. Would you rather sit on the porch and cuddle in the morning or late at night?
  6. Would you rather give me a message using oil or butter?
  7. Would you rather snuggle to me when we’re cold or hot and sweaty?
  8. Would you rather have a neck rub or a foot rub?
  9. Would you rather hold my hand or my butt?
  10. Would you rather play with my hair or rub your hands over my skin?

Romantic Gifts

  1. Would you rather buy my lingerie or a sexy outfit?
  2. Would you rather get a matching tattoo or piercings?
  3. Would you rather buy a puppy or a kitten together?
  4. Would you rather buy a lavender or vanilla candle?
  5. Would you rather have chocolate and flowers or jewelry?
  6. Would you rather wear matching pajamas or underwear?
  7. Would you rather I wear sweet and fruity perfume or dark and floral?
  8. Would you rather get a love note or a romantic gift?
  9. Would you rather ride in a limo or a classic car?
  10. Would you rather sprinkle flower petals on our bed or have a bouquet of balloons?

Sexy Would You Rather Questions

Want a few spicy prompts to get you excited? Check out these questions. 

  1. Would you rather have me fresh and clean or sweaty and raw?
  2. Would you rather be teased all day or have a quickie in the morning? 
  3. Would you rather pick out your own lingerie or sexy underwear or have me pick it?
  4. Would you rather make out at a drive-in movie or on your couch while watching a movie?
  5. Would you rather recreate our first date night or our wedding night?
  6. Would you rather take a late-night dip in the pool or a shower together?
  7. Would you rather play a game of strip poker or a video game where the winner gets to pick the position?
  8. Would you rather know I was sexy underwear or none at all?
  9. Would you rather wash my body in the shower or rub lotion into my skin after a shower?
  10. Would you rather have sex before or after date night?

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