I was asked by a reader today whether or not flavored lubes should be used for oral sex. IMO, that’s all a matter of personal preference.
Why Use Flavored Lubes?
Generally speaking, a person will use flavors on their spouse to make the experience more enjoyable for them. It doesn’t benefit the one receiving oral at all. Using some type of flavoring is for the one giving it.
Some people choose to do this to get over their inhibitions of pleasuring their spouse with their mouth. That is completely understandable. Others just like to have something pleasant to taste while doing this for their spouse.
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Where to Buy Flavored Lubes
I would recommend that if you buy lubes both flavored and non-flavored from reputable places. If you are looking for a good place to buy sensitive items, I recommend married Dance. This is their selection of flavored lubes.
Alternative to Lubes
If you don’t want to use flavored lubes, you can always try other edible options from your kitchen. Depending on the lube you buy, it may not be something you enjoy. Most companies try to make them taste like candy, but as with all candy, you like some and don’t like others
You can always try some of these food items:
Coconut oil by itself or mixed with a flavored extract
Chocolate syrup
Cool whip
Pudding
Maple syrup
Whatever you use, make sure your spouse is ok with it.
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Keelie Reason
I'm the voice of Love, Hope, Adventure, where I talk about the marriage relationship, intimacy in marriage, and how couples can go deeper with each other. I've been helping couples for well over a decade to lean into their sexuality and explore intimacy with their spouse. My goal is to answer questions that couples have about sex that they are too afraid to ask or Google. I provide God-honoring answers and resources to help them to go on a sexual journey together.
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