There were a few years in my marriage where I put love making on my chore list. It wasn’t healthy for me to resort to all duty sex all of the time. I had to make some conscious efforts to stop doing it out of obligation and start doing it for the right reasons.
If you would like to read what I have to say- hop on over to my other website I Am The Sex Talk Lady and check out this post.
If you would rather hear me talk it out- listen in to what I did to make the changes in my life to take sex off my chore list.
If you are in the same place I was, I encourage you to do what it takes to take sex off your to-do list. It is much better for you and your spouse if it is something you desire to do, verses something you feel you must do.
Keep working towards a closer relationship with your lover.