I want to talk to you ladies specifically for a minute. I remember being the mom of babies. Those were some difficult days, because I was sleep deprived. Not only that, I felt like I was more like a babysitter than an adult. I know you feel me on this.
I was in need of an escape from my daily mom duties, but was really struggling to find the relief. One day, I realized that having sex could be that for me. It was the most adult thing I could do in a day- and it didn’t require me to leave my kids.
This is one of the reasons that I always encourage new moms to have as much sex as possible. It’s good for you, it’s good for him, and it’s good for your marriage.
That’s why we have put such an emphasis on helping couples be adventurous in the bedroom. This idea of being adventurous sometimes comes with a stigma. Some couples think that anything outside of missionary intercourse is dirty or wrong. We have a different view.
We believe that sex within marriage can be varied and exciting.
We’re also very careful about the language we use. You don’t have to be a freak to be adventurous in the bedroom. It’s not “getting down and dirty,” it’s having mind-blowingly hot sex. Lingerie isn’t trashy, it’s visually generous for your spouse. We have a bedroom language, not dirty talk.
Here’s a few questions to figure out how you’re doing on the adventure side of your sex life-
- We have enough sex Yes or No
- I have enough orgasms Yes or No
- We have enough foreplay Yes or No
- I want to try something new Yes or No
I did a Facebook live the other day talking more about this subject.
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