For those of you that have just joined me this week, I write about sex tips on the website. I’ll be sure to mark my blushworthy posts ahead of time so that you do not get surprised. This is one of those posts.
Tips for Being Together In Front of a Mirror
A while ago, I wrote reasons why it is beneficial to use mirrors during your physically intimate times with your spouse. Then, I had a reader ask for specific tips to using mirrors. I have some tips on how you can incorporate this into your bedroom life.
Place Permanent Mirrors Strategically
If at all possible, you should place a few in your room in strategic places. If you have a large mirror on your chest of drawers, try to put that piece of furniture at the end of your bed.
You can attach a long one to a door if you have a door that would give you good view of your bed Hanging a long one on a wall is a good idea as well.
Permanently placing a few around your room makes it easy to see what is going on. I’m not one for hanging them from your ceiling (because who wants their kids to ask questions?). However, hanging a few around your room is inconspicuous.
Get in Front of Stationary Mirrors
If you do not have the ability to hang strategic mirrors in your room then consider getting in front of one that is in your room. This will require a bit of creativity for your furniture choice. Maybe you can use a chair or something else that is mobile.
Also, you can just stand in front of one and do some foreplay moves. Visual stimulation is so important for you and your spouse to connect during sex.
Consider Handheld Mirrors
Depending on lighting and distance, it can be hard to see what is going on. Consider using smaller ones that you can hold in your hand. Handheld ones can be moved around or sat in a place that will help you see up close what’s happening.
The view you can see with a smaller mirror up close is much more intimate. If you do not have a small one, then consider turning on the camera option on your phone. Your phone camera will show you different angles that you are hoping for.
Seeing Yourselves Be Intimate Helps You Connect
When you are pleasuring one another, seeing what is going on is a great way to connect. It can be hard to keep your mind on what is happening. That is why visual stimulation is so helpful. If you see your spouse’s face and how they are loving on you, it makes your connection even deeper.
If you do not have mirrors to use during your intimate times, find other ways to see each other. Really look at one another during these times. It is so important for the health of your marriage and the satisfaction of your sex life.
Keelie is a mother of three amazing boys and married to her high school sweetheart, Austin. She spends her days running R5 Website Management, taking care of the home, and investing in her children. In her spare time, she loves to encourage married couples to grow deeper in their relationship and find joy in their marriage.